Before play begins, clearly and specifically state your desires and limits. Don't assume anything. If you don't know your partner well, ask permission before using an implement and before rearranging or removing any clothing.
Be very aware of the bottom's verbal and especially non-verbal communication. Sometimes someone's movements will tell you much more than their words!
Be aware of the bottom's body position, pressure points, and joints. Ask if unsure.
Exercise caution when using any implement, especially if you are not familiar with it's usage, limitations, and the range of motion required for effectiveness.
Always talk before play!
Please keep these things in mind and have a spanking good time! :)
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