Policies and Rules

SOS sanctions only safe and controlled, mutually acceptable fun. Absolutely no abuse or coercion will be tolerated.
You must be at least 18 years old to enter. No exceptions.
Spankers of the SouthEast will not release any information about members to anyone outside of SOS.
Please keep conversation to a low minumum if you see people playing in a public area, please be considerate of their scene and do not interrupt unless they allow it. If they are in a scene in the playroom, please be quiet. Keep the conversations to the public area.
No bondage or bondage gear is permitted at SOS. This includes cuffs of any type, rope and other restraints. The only exception is that submissives may wear a collar if required by his/her dominant.
Anyone under the influence of alcohol or drugs may by asked to leave. This is for the safety of the group...and will be enforced...very dangerous play for the bottoms, and/or the Tops....
Smoking is outside only. Where? The Smoking Area is outside on the back deck only. Please do not smoke in the house and please don't forget to use the special containers provided for the disposal of cigarette butts. Please do not throw cigarette butts on the ground, porch, driveway, or parking areas!
Cameras and recording equipment will not be used without the express consent of all parties involved.
No full nudity. The only part that needs baring is the bottom for spanking. :)
Sexual play is allowed but no anal, oral, or vaginal penetration with or by the penis. The use of dildoes, butt plugs, or vibrators are allowed but have to be used with the cover of a condom. Gloves will be provided.
When you play, be sure of the ground rules. Make sure of what you can and cannot do. Do not test someone else's limits without first checking with that person for their approval. If in doubt, DON'T.
The Spanking Monitor has the authority to control all activity in the house. If you see any unsafe activity, or if the House Rules are not being followed, please notify the Spanking Monitor (SM) or Staff. If in doubt, ask the SM.
Do not join in on anyone else's playtime, without the express permission of BOTH parties. (Not even if one of the players is your significant other or best friend.)
Treating others with respect and courtesy is expected at all times-bratty behavior is an exception (of course!).
If you borrow an implement, you are expected to return it directly to that person. (And, of course, to gain their permission prior to taking it.)
The universal safeword is "RED." When used, all play will stop immediately. The bottom will then decide how play will be resumed or if play will be terminated.. Other safewords may be established between partners, however "RED" will always be recognized. Another commonly used safeword is YELLOW - slow down, lets talk about what is going on here. Failure to respect Safe Words is grounds for ejection.
At all times the TOP is in control, and the BOTTOM is in charge.
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